Thursday, February 1, 2024

Today is a Good Day to Have a Good Day

Today was filled with good news, from a good check up for Steve after his back surgery to my Herceptin and Perjeta being approved by my insurance for my full treatment course. I feel fortunate to be having good days so far where I can focus on my health moving forward. I’m not known to take a good day for granted, and I’m not going to start now.

 

Wednesday, January 31, 2024

Nausea and Sharks

I officially have a nausea and vomiting decision tree. It's pretty simple really, and quite essential. I follow the first this, then that process, and have been able to keep most nausea and all vomiting at bay. It is more of an acid refluxy feeling. I have four options to choose from in the order in which they are suggested. It's a pretty good system so far!

I've found I do best in the mornings, but overall, I'm doing quite well I think. I'm only on day 3 so we'll see how it goes. 
In other news, sharks do get cancer. Many of you likely don't know that the Great White Shark is my spirit animal, and just like me, they do get cancer. 


On Monday, I channeled my inner Great White Shark by surrounding myself with the gifts of my friends. I wore my shark earrings and socks and was gifted Sammy the Shark (plushy) and Gordon the Shark (squishmallow) during my first treatment.

Finally, I wanted to offer further medical explanation of any of the happenings to date if I left anything out. What seems linear to me, may not be to someone else who doesn't live in the healthcare realm. Feel free to leave a comment or shoot me a text if there is something I haven't explained well. Part of this is sharing knowledge and I don't want to leave anything out.

Sorry for the jumbled blog post:



Monday, January 29, 2024

"Rest and let the poison do it's magic!"

Day one of chemotherapy complete! On my first day, my Perjeta and Herceptin doses were doubled for a starting loading dose. They were the first two infusions I had, followed by Taxotere and Carboplatin infusions. My future infusions will take about 4 hours instead of the 6 hours today. Between these four main medications, they infuse saline, Zofran, and dexamethasone to manage the side effects. So far, I'm just a bit tired with some minor taste changes and dry mouth, but doing well otherwise.


I fielded a call from the Payer Matrix Pharmacy representative so we can get my 2nd Cycle (should be 2/19/24) as well as all future Perjeta and Herceptin infusions covered. I'll continue to advocate for myself to ensure I get the treatment I need to beat this thing!

A wise friend, who has been through this herself said, "Rest and let the poison do it's magic!" It is likely the best, albeit weirdest, advice I've received in quite a while, and I believe every bit of it.


Here's to rest and magic poison!

Cycle 1 - Hit Me With Your Best Shot!




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Sunday, January 28, 2024

Wish me luck guys!

 

Tomorrow begins my chemotherapy treatment of TCHP. It took a combination of my persistence with the navigation assistance of my nurse advocate to get an exception mid Friday from my pharmacy coverage to begin the Herceptin and Perjeta. I'm as prepared as I can be for the unknown I'm about to encounter. 

For the men out there:



Until tomorrow...

Thursday, January 25, 2024

Lie Low to the Wall

Today, I’ll share a poem provided to me by my good friend, Hope. I am surrounded by amazing people.


 I’m currently still working on getting my TCHP prior authorization processed with insurance so I can begin Monday. I have a strong patient advocate assigned to me through my insurance so I know between the two of us we’ll get it done. I just can’t imagine navigating this entire process without any medical knowledge. It has to be even more daunting for the patients we serve every day to wander around in a world of unknowns, waiting on the process to unfold on its own. This is why I truly love what I do every day to ensure our patients have support with their care. 






 


Monday, January 22, 2024

TCHP

 Thank you for all the well wishes and support. We have a planned start date of Monday, January 29th for my first day of chemotherapy which will consist of four main infusions known as TCHP.

TCHP stands for:

  • T – Taxotere® (Docetaxel)
  • C – Carboplatin (Paraplatin®)
  • H – Herceptin® (Trastuzumab)
  • P – Perjeta® (Pertuzumab)
T & C are chemotherapy medications and are an antineoplastic agent and platinum chemotherapy, respectively.
H & P are targeted therapy for HER2+ cells and are monoclonal antibodies.


We decided not to biopsy my vertebra as the treatment would not change, and it is most important to get the treatment started as soon as possible. It is possible we will biopsy it at a later date, but that is still to be determined.

Many of you know how long my to do list normally is, but for now, I'm going to keep it simple:







Sunday, January 21, 2024

One Day at a Time

 I came across a great post on Pinterest titled "I had Cancer & This is What I Needed". There is no "how-to" book on this and just like you, I'm:


I found her points clear and helpful as we navigate these waters together. I appreciate everyone's support and want to ensure you're as supported as I am, as this is a two-way relationship and we're all going through our side of it whether we like it or not. Here are some thoughts from a fellow 30ish year old breast cancer survivor who then found herself being the caregiver/friend not even 2 years after her recovery for her not even 30 year old friend:

  1. Do not say “it’s all going to be okay.”  Unless you are a fortune teller, you don’t know this to be the truth, so stay away from it.  It’s the first thing you will think of – I thought it too, but it’s not helpful, I am sorry to say.  
  2. Be yourself.  The reason you are in this person’s life is because they love you for you.  Don’t try to suddenly be the person you think they need because they are fighting cancer.  Stay true to yourself. Trust me, this makes the fight easier for them…and for you.
  3. Treat them to something they love.  I am not saying go out and buy them the world, but if they like to read, get the newest bestseller, if they like chocolate, buy them a sweet treat, etc.  If they enjoy writing or journaling, buy them something beautiful to write in like the Love Heals journal. You get the idea. *** Some of my go-tos so far are my metal stone that says "One Day at a Time" sent by an amazing friend in Idaho, a soup care package from Spoonful of Comfort from my mother-in-law that filled our tummies with delicious homemade chicken and rice soup, a beautiful sage cardigan that is a hug any time I put it on from my two coworkers/friends, and my amethyst bracelet handmade by a coworker/friend's daughter who is a major hustler and sold it to me for $10 (instead of $5) because she only needed $10 to get the item in the gift shop she really wanted. Her mom was proud and embarrassed. I was just proud of the little entrepreneur and happy to pay $10 to see her smiling face achieve her financial goal! ***
  4. Laugh with them.  I latched onto humor like it was a lifesaver.  I made fun of everything from my bald head, to my forgetful mind (thank you chemo.)  Follow the person’s lead here, but if they open up the door to laughter and humor, play along.  It will help them and you too.
  5. Don’t run.  It seems like a safe place to just run from them because you don’t know what to say or do.  I don’t suggest this. It tells them you don’t care. Just because you don’t feel like you have the absolute perfect words to share about cancer, so what?  Be a part of their life like the friend or family member you have always been to them. Trust me, they will want things as normal as possible.
  6. Stay away from “motivational” cancer stories and verbiage.  This is hard to explain, but as I was going through treatment, I didn’t want to hear about “new normal” and I am just going to “have to deal with the changes in my life.”  I hated all that. I hated hearing “you can’t get your old life back.” I am super well aware. However, at the time, it felt good just to get those words out. Don’t try to sugar coat the situation.
  7. Let the person grieve. This ties into point 6.  Don’t be “Suzy Sunshine” every time you hear them talk about being scared, sad, fearful, etc.  Let them speak it!! They are going through potentially one of the worst moments in their life and they are scared out of their minds.  Telling them not to think the horrible thoughts that they are fearful of dying is not helpful. You may not want to hear it and they surely don’t want to say it, but it’s there and it’s in their mind.  Let them speak it.
  8. Ask questions.  Feel out what the person is willing or not willing to share.  I appreciated it when people wanted to know what was happening, how I felt, how the treatment was going, etc.  I had no problem chatting about it. See where this goes. Some people will be open to share and some won’t. Both are just fine.
  9. Do not share stories of unhappy endings.  I feel this is obvious, but you would be surprised.  I always got one or two of the “my friend had cancer too, but….she died.”  Not helpful. Nothing else necessary to say here.
  10. Talk about the happenings in your life too.  I literally hated when people refused to tell me about their day to day lives.  They would say “oh you have so much worse things happening than hearing about how my car broke down.”  No no!! I LOVED to hear about everyone’s daily lives. It made me feel normal and sane. Trust me on this one.

One Day at a Time.






Saturday, January 20, 2024

Sometimes Courage Looks Like Patience

 The words are flowing a bit less freely for this post. Findings of my PET scan received on 1/16/24 confirmed the known malignancy but also added yet another layer to the ongoing information gathering session. The Pros: No further confirmation of involved lymph nodes (but to be finally determined by biopsy during surgery). The Cons: Areas of increased uptake at T11 and L1 warranting further imaging to determine if incidental finding or potential metastases. This, my friends, is why I waited until after a thoracic and lumbar MRI with and without contrast on 1/19/24 before posting this next post. Unfortunately, the MRI wasn't as helpful as we had hoped either. It identified some incidental findings showing hemangiomas at C7, T3, T4, and T10. 

There is still an area of undetermined involvement in T11, although noted to be in a different area than what was visualized on my PET scan. It states "Potentially this could represent reactive edema from the degeneration however, metastatic disease cannot be completely excluded on this exam and attention on follow-up examination is recommended." There is also findings of a Schmorl's Node in my T11 vertebrae. Hang on tight everyone, we're now in unchartered territory together. I may as well plan to donate my body to the Mütter Museum in Philadelphia. Been there, seen that. It is worth it if you get the chance!

The long and short of it is that there is more to come after my visit to the oncologist on 1/22/24 to determine if a bone biopsy is needed or if we're good to go on starting chemo.

I had my powerport placed on 1/19/24. I'm a little sore but that is to be expected. The care I have been receiving and continue to receive at Mat-Su Regional Medical Center is exceptional.



TL;DR



This is me, being patient.








Saturday, January 13, 2024

The Realist's Optimistic View of Cancer - The Beginning

 If you're reading this, you're someone who I deeply care about and am fortunate to look to for support (so thank you!). I hope this platform is helpful to gain knowledge, increase early detection via preventive health services, and provide solace for those reading this. I plan to add helpful links if you wish to go down the rabbit hole, and TL;DR (Too Long; Didn't Read) options for the quick and dirty version.

 On December 14th, at a well-woman exam, my primary care provider (PCP) who is a DNP (Doctor of Nursing Practice) found a lump she didn't like. Since I am 38 years old, I had not yet had a mammogram, and she referred me for a mammogram and ultrasound. Due to there being a concern, there was an interventional radiologist on retainer for the 2 hours which allowed my mammogram and ultrasound findings to be further investigated and ultrasound biopsy and clip (I got a heart one!) insertion done on the same day (December 26th).


 He was honest, which I appreciated, and stated while he could not diagnose cancer from a mammogram alone, he had concerns at this time through their BI-RADs category (I was a 4C at the time and have since increased to a 6 after MRI) which led to the three core needle biopsies to be taken. Preliminary pathology results were sent to my PCP on December 29th who let me know it showed Invasive Ductal Carcinoma, the most common type of breast cancer. Final pathology results were available on January 2nd which showed it was Triple Positive (Estrogen, Progesterone and Human Epidermal Growth Factor Receptor 2 aka HER2 positive) which means the little thing (currently 1.3 x 2.0 x 2.2 cm) loves everything and therefore grows really fast. HER2+ breast cancers tend to grow faster and are more likely to spread. On the flip side, it also responds better to breast cancer treatment that targets HER2 proteins, which is a positive (pun intended). 

 The next test I received was an MRI with contrast. From there, it was decided I should get a PET scan to truly know the full involvement at this time. I had the PET scan on January 12th and had to wait for the radioisotope to fly in on Alaska Airlines from Seattle, hoping it didn't fly out the door. Sorry, was that too soon?

 I also received an echocardiogram (ECHO) to get a baseline status of my heart as the suggested chemotherapy is cardiotoxic (can cause heart damage). At this time, next step is to get the PET scan results and meet with the medical oncologist on January 16th which is also the day all four of my physicians will be in the same room discussing my case.

TL;DR


Thank you again. I'll leave you with this, for now: